Now, some people prefer to remain single, and there is nothing wrong with that if it makes you happy and fulfilled. But if it is in your heart to share your life with another person, I assure you there is someone for you if you put your faith into action in matters of the heart.
To do that, you first must accept these four basic tenets:
1. You are a child of God. He created you. You may see yourself as imperfect, but God does not. You were made according to His plan. If you treat others with respect and kindness, if you try to do the right things and to make the most of your gifts, you will be worthy of love.
2. To be loved by others, you must first love yourself. If you find it difficult to love yourself, then you have work to do before you can expect anyone else to sign on to a relationship with you.
3. If you come from love, there is no need to look for it. Put yourself out there by opening your heart to others. Listen to what they say and also to what they feel. Prepare to give your love as a caring, honest, and trustworthy person, and you will surely receive it in equal doses.
4. You cannot give up on love. You may try to bury your feelings, and you may harden your heart as a protective measure, but you were created out of love and it is part of your life force. God does not want you to squander the love you have. Know that broken relationships prepare you for the one that will last. So stay in faith, and remain open to one of God’s greatest gifts.
It’s better to ask the Lord to help you find the one whom He wants you to be with. Pray:
Lord, take my feelings for this person away if it is not Your willor If this is the person You want for me, please let us love each other according to Your plan
